Tuesday, May 20, 2014

Update on my 40 before 40 list...

I just thought I would update y'all on my list! So far two things have been worked on, #35 and #38.

35. Buy fancy but comfy pajamas ***Update 5/20/14 purchased two pairs of cute and comfy jammies!****

38. Find a way to contribute to our families finances without compromising my role as a mom and wife ***Update 4/1/14 began my job as an independent consultant with Jamberry Nail Wraps! LOVE IT!!!***

Friday, May 16, 2014

Jamberry give away...

Just wanted to let you know about a contest I am doing on my facbeook page! Just click on over to my Jamberry facebook page and like it!

My Jamberry facebook page is:

Jessica Calvarese - Jamberry Independent Consultant.

Tuesday, May 13, 2014


The definition of purpose is: the reason for which something is done or created or for which something exists.

What is your purpose? Pretty much since I was a teenager, I knew I wanted to be a wife and mother. Honestly though, I didn't ever see that as my purpose. I never in a million years thought I would get to be a stay at home mom, so I figured I would need to have a career as my purpose. 

Does that make sense? 

Anyways, since we up and moved our family, I have really been struggling with what my purpose is.  Where we lived before I had other stay at home mom friends. In fact, one of my best friends lived only a fourth of a mile away, we were practically in the same neighborhood. We hung out a lot and even did special things for other friends. I found it fun and also I found it to be a ministry. At that time in my life, it was my purpose! 

Fast forward to over a year later, a new town, a new house, new friends most of which are not stay at home moms, or if they are they live in the next town over. There is also the fact that Ian has started school, which puts a limit on what we can do. 

Now bring in Jamberry! I know it may sound silly, but I have found my purpose with Jamberry! I enjoy doing the things that aren't house work (because frankly I'm not good at that stuff)! I get to have girls nights and earn money at the same time! I also get to use it as a ministry! For example, at my last party I was so nervous. It was my first in person party. I began to get really anxious and yelled at my husband (sorry about that babe). Then on the way to the party, I was reminded of the verse in the Bible that I share with my boys all the time! "God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of love and a sound mind." I was able to share that at the party! 

So there you go. There is my update on me and my purpose. If you have anything you want to share about what your purpose is, I would love to hear it! And of course if you have any questions about Jamberry I can help with that too ;)