Tuesday, May 5, 2020

My first tattoo...


Well let's see the day started with a migraine and I was up at 2 in the morning and couldn't get back to sleep. Not a fun way to start the day. Especially since I was nervous as all get out! 

The time came though that I was to leave to make the drive to Tulsa. The long...hour...drive. Ugh. On the way there I just kept thinking oh no, what if I can't handle the pain? I became more nervous, but was still determined to get the tattoo.

When I arrived and she printed off the stencil we placed it on the spot I thought I wanted it, however it didn't look good. So we played around and ended up putting it on it's side and more on my shoulder than on my back. I LOVED IT, but wanted a second opinion so I video called my bestie and got her opinion and she agreed.

Shae, the tattoo artist, was so kind and understanding about it being my first tattoo. She explained what she was doing as she did it. Told me what to expect and counted down before starting with the needle.

The initial pain was like someone scratching your sunburn. It hurt, but it went away pretty quick. The more she did though the more used to it I got and it really wasn't that bad. At some point I mentioned that I could fall asleep! Ha! Before I knew it we were done and over with. It was a great first experience and I highly recommend Haunted Heart Tattoo, especially Shae.

I can't wait to be able to really show it off to people!

Update on my 40 before 40 list...

It has been a minute or two since my last update on here, but here I am! I thought I would update y'all on where I am at with my 40 before 40 list! I have changed some of the items because, well frankly they just weren't feasible or they were similar to another item on the list. 

Yesterday I was able to cross off number 15, which was get a tattoo! Yep I got a REAL tattoo. No more fake ones for me! Ha! I will do a post dedicated to that here in a bit. 😀 

Well without further ado, here is my current list (some have been left out because I leave it between me, myself, and I). 


  1. Lose weight

  2. Go on a trip with just Justin
  3. Go on a trip somewhere fun with just Justin and the kids
  4. Get paid to take someone’s pictures
  5. Take some sort of class, like cake decorating, photography, or crafting class
  6. Have all of our boxes cleared out of the garage
  7. Wear a dress or shirt that shows some cleavage and wear it with confidence (aka don’t be insecure)
  8. Go camping 
  9. Do a cartwheel 
  10. Go snorkeling 
  11. Take a self defense class
  12. Take a girls trip with my closest girlfriends
  13. Get my passport
  14. Get a tattoo
  15. Go to an OSU football game
  16. Be in more pictures with Justin and the kids
  17. Write an article and submit it to a newspaper or magazine 
  18. Have purple highlights in my hair
  19. Throw a birthday party for an underprivileged kid
  20. Sponsor a child through compassion international
  21. Go to a formal event with Justin
  22. Have a FRIENDS marathon weekend where I (and anyone else who wants to join me) watch all 10 seasons of FRIENDS in order. This may be more of a 2 weekend event
  23. Take the family to Disney World or Lego Land CA
  24. Re-do our wedding vows 
  25. Audition for a musical or play
  26. Make a family yearbook at least once
  27. Pay for a stranger's meal
  28. Buy a bike and go on rides with my kids/family
  29. Host more get togethers
  30. Be able to wear a pair of boots that come to my knee
  31. See Michael Buble in concert
  32. Do a date night for Justin that he would enjoy.
  33. Wear makeup everyday for a month
  34. Buy fancy but comfy pajamas
  35. Serve others more than myself
  36. Do a Bible study and actually complete it
  37. Find a way to contribute to our families finances without compromising my role as a mom and wife
  38. Start taking the wall paper down in the guest house!
  39. Climb an indoor rock climbing wall